I haven't updated in over a month. A month and 11 days, actually. Some big things have happened with Katie, and it's taken me every moment of that time to soak it in and be able to talk about it without anger.
While it may be common knowledge that katie's dad and I don't get along-at all (in fact I think oil and water may get along better than he and I do), what isn't common knowledge is that for roughly the last year or so he has been trying to gain custody of our daughter. Sole custody. As in she live with him and I have weekend visitation, etc.
Some of you may be asking yourselves, "Why? Avery is a good Mom". While I do the best I can, I went through a rough spot emotionally the summer and fall of 2012. He decided to take these things, throw em in with a couple other accusations (some false, some extremely outdated or stretched), and use them against me to attempt to prove me unfit to have custody of Katie.
Moving on.
Our final court date on this issue was May 1, 2013. We were scheduled for a hearing/trial before the judge over our case. It didn't happen. Together, with our lawyers, we were able to come to an agreement outside of the courtroom.
For those of you who don't understand why I agreed to the set agreement (which I will describe as this post progresses), I'm going to explain what happened in that room, as best I can.
We sat down and he and his lawyer admitted they were no longer seeking custody of Katie, however, they wanted more visitation time.
Through discussion, we decided it would be best to wait in seperare rooms and allow our lawyers to go between. They made proposals, we countered, etc.
We finally came up with Katie staying with me through the school year, with her seeing her dad every other weekend, holidays, and certain days during Christmas and Spring breaks. And she goes there all Summer. She will be with me alternating weekends, 5/7 days, and she continues to play summer league softball in Fairfield as long as she stays interested. Of course there's a couple of other minor details that aren't as significant. So, there it is. Nothing else changes. Summer visitation is pretty much the only thing that changed.
Several people have questioned why I would agree to this. While I really want to simply say, "I'm her mom, you aren't.", I won't. It was actually a matter of unknowns: I could have taken my chances and said absolutely NO to anything they presented and gone through a full trial before the judge and risked losing custody of Katie; we could've gone before the judge and he could've ordered all sorts of other changes; we could've gone before the judge and he ordered she go there all Summer, no softball, no 5 days, nothing. In the big picture, I think the agreement really isn't too terrible, which is why I agreed to it.
It will be very good for their relationship to spend some extra time together. I'm actually kind of anxious to see how it goes.
It took Katie a couple weeks to warm up to the idea of being at Daddy's all Summer. At first, she was extremely opposed to the idea. Now, she's warmed up to it. She remembered that Daddy has a swimming pool and she'll be able to swim as much as she wants. (I remember when I was little and I loved going swimming so much, I can't even imagine if we'd actually had a " big" pool). Now she's started to be excited about it and I'm hoping that it will help make for an easier transition for both of us.
Maybe I'm being a little selfish here, but I'm kind of worried about how I'll do this summer. Katie and I are pretty much joined at the hip. I've asked to work extra hours and changed my availability some to help keep my mind off of my sidekick being gone. I'm thinking about maybe taking a class at FCC over the Summer, and I've resolved to get more active, and stay that way. I'm going to try "clean" eating, walking leading up to running, and getting and keeping my apartment spotless (ya, right!). Maybe I'll even find a guy to keep me busy. My primary focus when I don't have Katie and when I'm not at work, however, will be getting-and staying-healty.
In other news, softball practices have started and we are excited to start the season! Katie's first game is May 27 at 8pm.
We'll see what happens. "One day at a time" has become my motto for this Summer. I'm finally somewhat optimistic about it. It's a Summer of possibilities-for Katie and for Mommy.
Tuesday, May 20, 2014
Wednesday, April 9, 2014
6 Years Ago
Wow! It's hard to believe that TOMORROW my baby girl will be 6. S. I. X. Years. Old. Six. Its been 6 years since she was born. Wow. I am in such disbelief at how fast time has flown by.
I would love to share with you the story as to how I found out I was pregnant.
In May, 2007, Katie's dad, Rodney, and I started dating. By the end of June, we were engaged, and married December 15, 2007. I'll save that story fur a different post. That's the story of her dad and I.
In June, 2006, I started working at Champion Labs. In July, my insurance went into effect. As my insurance went into effect, I started getting sick. All the time. I would throw up 3+ times a day, 5 or so days a week. For a year solid. I underwent countless tests, Dr appts, etc to figure out what was going on. As things were ruled out, my Dr decided that we'd look into my gallbladder. Now, keepnij mind that any test I had had done on my gallbladder came back reletively normal. We decided to take it out and see if it helped. "Why is this relevant to the story of Katie?", you ask. Hang tight, you're getting ready to find out.
Now, a patient must have reutine testing and things done before having a surgery. Roughly two or so weeks before my gallbladder operation, I had a simple procedure done where a scope is insured through my esophagus and down to my stomach, just to make sure my stomach isn't what was causing my issues. Since I'd had those preop tests done so recently, I was able to skip most of them. Except the pregnancy test. They redid that one.
I remember laying in the OR, when the nurse came in from getting the results from my blood HCG (the hormone that becomes elevated when one is pregnant). I asked her what it was, "Negative. Why? Do you think you could be pregnant?" Was her response. I was "late". But I was relieved that the test was negative. Being put under general anesthesia when pregnant poses man risks to baby.
August came, and I STILL hadn't "started". I was still taking my birth control regular, of course. Well, the time came that I needed more. I went to the Health Dept to get my script refilled. While there, they did a urine test just to make sure. Well, I had done a few at-home tests, which came back negative, so I wasn't expecting anything too exciting. How wrong was I! It was positive! I don't remember who my first phone call was to. My sister, maybe? I remember the call to Rodney, I was pumping gas at Casey's in Albion. That night, we went for dinner at Lonestar in Mt. Vernon. Which I barely ate because EVERYTHING that went down, came back up.
I was constantly sick. Anything & everything made me sick. My first Dr appt was supposed to be Sept 10. My loving sister went with me. Of course I was running late and the Dr wouldn't see me. So, we went to the ER in Mt. Vernon. I found out I was 10 weeks pregnant. My sister was by my side throughout my entire pregnancy. I believe that she went to more prenatal visits and birthing classes with me than Rodney did.
The next roughly 30 weeks flew by. We found out we were having a girl (finally! The first ultrasound she wouldn't cooperate and the tech wasn't certain what we were having). Rodney knew all along we were having a girl. I constantly second guessed it. We picked out a name.... Kathleen, after my mom, and myself; Alexis, I heard it on the radio and fell in love with it (though I really wanted Gracelyn, but her daddy wouldn't agree); and Rose, after me. Since I picked out most of her name, I let Rodney pick out her nickname. We had decided on Katie, but I let him pick how to spell it, with some input from me, of course. We went baby shopping, had a baby shower, found clothes, and anticipated Katie's arrival.
Anticipating that I would have a big baby-I was over 8lbs at birth, and I believe Rodney was close to 10, my Dr recommended I be induced. A date was set-April 9, 2008.
On April 8, Rodney took me out for Mexican in McLeansboro as a sort of last dinner/date with it being just the two of us. On the way home, he joked that labor could go into the 10th, and she would be our little shotgun baby. 4/10..... A 410 shotgun..... Yeah. Once we got home, I made sure I had the diaper bag packed and ready, and I barely slept at all that night!
I don't remember exactly what time, but I know we woke up early to go to the hospital-Good Sam in Mt. Vernon. IL. I really want to say that we had to be checked in at 6am. The nurses started my IV at approx 7am, my Dr came in and broke my water about an hour later. The day progressed, and it was fairly boring, I got an epidural, which had to be redone, then around 11pm, I started begging to push. They finally let me start around 1am on April 10.
Kathleen Alexis Rose was born at 2:05 am, April 10, 2008. I had my sister on one side, and Katie's dad on the other. I cut her umbilical cord. I remember them laying her on my chest and I was just overwhelmed with emotion. Katie weighed 8lbs, 2oz, and measured 20 ½ inches. She now weighs close to 65lbs and is over 3 feet tall!
The last 6 years haven't been easy-Rodney and I got divorced, and Kate and I have been through a lot.
I have been the best mother that could be. Katie constantly teaches me new things about being a Mom, and we are growing and changing together every day.
6 years ago, my world changed. It turned upside down. And I would not change any minute of it.
5 years old
4 years old
4 years old
2 years old
First day of PreSchool, 2011
3 years old
5 years old.
I would love to share with you the story as to how I found out I was pregnant.
In May, 2007, Katie's dad, Rodney, and I started dating. By the end of June, we were engaged, and married December 15, 2007. I'll save that story fur a different post. That's the story of her dad and I.
In June, 2006, I started working at Champion Labs. In July, my insurance went into effect. As my insurance went into effect, I started getting sick. All the time. I would throw up 3+ times a day, 5 or so days a week. For a year solid. I underwent countless tests, Dr appts, etc to figure out what was going on. As things were ruled out, my Dr decided that we'd look into my gallbladder. Now, keepnij mind that any test I had had done on my gallbladder came back reletively normal. We decided to take it out and see if it helped. "Why is this relevant to the story of Katie?", you ask. Hang tight, you're getting ready to find out.
Now, a patient must have reutine testing and things done before having a surgery. Roughly two or so weeks before my gallbladder operation, I had a simple procedure done where a scope is insured through my esophagus and down to my stomach, just to make sure my stomach isn't what was causing my issues. Since I'd had those preop tests done so recently, I was able to skip most of them. Except the pregnancy test. They redid that one.
I remember laying in the OR, when the nurse came in from getting the results from my blood HCG (the hormone that becomes elevated when one is pregnant). I asked her what it was, "Negative. Why? Do you think you could be pregnant?" Was her response. I was "late". But I was relieved that the test was negative. Being put under general anesthesia when pregnant poses man risks to baby.
August came, and I STILL hadn't "started". I was still taking my birth control regular, of course. Well, the time came that I needed more. I went to the Health Dept to get my script refilled. While there, they did a urine test just to make sure. Well, I had done a few at-home tests, which came back negative, so I wasn't expecting anything too exciting. How wrong was I! It was positive! I don't remember who my first phone call was to. My sister, maybe? I remember the call to Rodney, I was pumping gas at Casey's in Albion. That night, we went for dinner at Lonestar in Mt. Vernon. Which I barely ate because EVERYTHING that went down, came back up.
I was constantly sick. Anything & everything made me sick. My first Dr appt was supposed to be Sept 10. My loving sister went with me. Of course I was running late and the Dr wouldn't see me. So, we went to the ER in Mt. Vernon. I found out I was 10 weeks pregnant. My sister was by my side throughout my entire pregnancy. I believe that she went to more prenatal visits and birthing classes with me than Rodney did.
The next roughly 30 weeks flew by. We found out we were having a girl (finally! The first ultrasound she wouldn't cooperate and the tech wasn't certain what we were having). Rodney knew all along we were having a girl. I constantly second guessed it. We picked out a name.... Kathleen, after my mom, and myself; Alexis, I heard it on the radio and fell in love with it (though I really wanted Gracelyn, but her daddy wouldn't agree); and Rose, after me. Since I picked out most of her name, I let Rodney pick out her nickname. We had decided on Katie, but I let him pick how to spell it, with some input from me, of course. We went baby shopping, had a baby shower, found clothes, and anticipated Katie's arrival.
Anticipating that I would have a big baby-I was over 8lbs at birth, and I believe Rodney was close to 10, my Dr recommended I be induced. A date was set-April 9, 2008.
On April 8, Rodney took me out for Mexican in McLeansboro as a sort of last dinner/date with it being just the two of us. On the way home, he joked that labor could go into the 10th, and she would be our little shotgun baby. 4/10..... A 410 shotgun..... Yeah. Once we got home, I made sure I had the diaper bag packed and ready, and I barely slept at all that night!
I don't remember exactly what time, but I know we woke up early to go to the hospital-Good Sam in Mt. Vernon. IL. I really want to say that we had to be checked in at 6am. The nurses started my IV at approx 7am, my Dr came in and broke my water about an hour later. The day progressed, and it was fairly boring, I got an epidural, which had to be redone, then around 11pm, I started begging to push. They finally let me start around 1am on April 10.
Kathleen Alexis Rose was born at 2:05 am, April 10, 2008. I had my sister on one side, and Katie's dad on the other. I cut her umbilical cord. I remember them laying her on my chest and I was just overwhelmed with emotion. Katie weighed 8lbs, 2oz, and measured 20 ½ inches. She now weighs close to 65lbs and is over 3 feet tall!
The last 6 years haven't been easy-Rodney and I got divorced, and Kate and I have been through a lot.
I have been the best mother that could be. Katie constantly teaches me new things about being a Mom, and we are growing and changing together every day.
6 years ago, my world changed. It turned upside down. And I would not change any minute of it.
Saturday, March 29, 2014
Weekend thoughts
I know this blog is supposed to be about my crazy life as a single mom. Well, it's not so crazy anymore, which I described in my last post. I know, I'm posting twice in one week, I must have gone crazy or something, right? No, I just can't sleep. I love it every few weeks when my insomnia makes an appearance and I go days on just a couple hours of sleep. It's the life, let me tell you. Just kidding. It really sucks.
What do I do when I can't sleep? I SHOULD clean or do something productive, but I don't. I lay in bed and toss and turn, play on my phone, think about a bazillion different things that really don't amount to a hill of beans, and watch movies.
Katie is at her dad's this weekend and that leaves me home alone. I usually work my way through these weekends, but today (Saturday) was my niece, Evelyn's (Evie) 4th birthday and her party, so I took the weekend off work. Evie is my brother's little girl. If I haven't told my few loyal readers before, he and his wife, Jen, live in Indianapolis. So, we made the trek up there. As you can imagine, it was quite an adventure. We had my sister, me, dad, his girl friend Mary, and my sister's two daughters all stuffed into my sister's new (to them) Acadia. Oh yeah, along with birthday presents, changes of clothes, 2 car seats, along with everything else that goes along with 6 people in 1 vehicle on an all day road trip where we'd spend roughly 8 hours in the car. It was a fun adventure and I'd do it again in a heartbeat.
I'm going to keep this relatively short. I'm starting to have trouble keeping my eyelids open!
I've been posting from my phone; I'm hoping to be able to start posting from my computer soon, and I'll share some pictures, links, and other things from my crazy life.
Until next time, stay safe, have fun, and God bless!
What do I do when I can't sleep? I SHOULD clean or do something productive, but I don't. I lay in bed and toss and turn, play on my phone, think about a bazillion different things that really don't amount to a hill of beans, and watch movies.
Katie is at her dad's this weekend and that leaves me home alone. I usually work my way through these weekends, but today (Saturday) was my niece, Evelyn's (Evie) 4th birthday and her party, so I took the weekend off work. Evie is my brother's little girl. If I haven't told my few loyal readers before, he and his wife, Jen, live in Indianapolis. So, we made the trek up there. As you can imagine, it was quite an adventure. We had my sister, me, dad, his girl friend Mary, and my sister's two daughters all stuffed into my sister's new (to them) Acadia. Oh yeah, along with birthday presents, changes of clothes, 2 car seats, along with everything else that goes along with 6 people in 1 vehicle on an all day road trip where we'd spend roughly 8 hours in the car. It was a fun adventure and I'd do it again in a heartbeat.
I'm going to keep this relatively short. I'm starting to have trouble keeping my eyelids open!
I've been posting from my phone; I'm hoping to be able to start posting from my computer soon, and I'll share some pictures, links, and other things from my crazy life.
Until next time, stay safe, have fun, and God bless!
Friday, March 28, 2014
Randomness-Update
I once said I liked it when my life gets a little crazy. I now want to knock that person out. Maybe I should say that I like it when I stay busy.
Last year at this time, I was a full-time student, part-time employee, and trying tonfit motherhood in the mix. I was in my phlebotomy clinicals, finishing up coursework for my associates degrees, studying for my phlebotomy board certification, working, and being a single mom. I know there are thousands upon thousands of single parents out there who do this. It just seemed extra hard for me. Oh yeah, I forgot to throw in a custody battle with my ex husband. And some other nonsense court business. Oh the craziness and the stress!
This year, the custody battle is ongoing, though it does not require as many days off work and out of class as it originally did. The other cases have been settled, and life is not so crazy. Busy? Absolutely. I like to stay busy. Just not crazy busy.
I'm working almost full-time, I've graduated community college, but I'm still on the job hunt, and I have so much more Mommy & Katie time! That is absolutely the best part of life slowing down this year, and the point of me taking time off from school before going on to an university. I work more often, and longer hours, but I'm not spending so much time "zoned out" studying or halfway being a mom.
Katie definitely enjoys having her mommy's attention more, and she takes advantage of it as often as she can-which is about every 5 or fewer minutes.
It's crazy to realize that my baby girl will be turning 6 in less than 2 weeks. She is growing in leaps and bounds. I find it so hard to comprehend that my 8lb, 2oz, 20½ in baby has grown to barely fit in my arms and weighs over 60lbs these days. She still loves it when I rock her like a baby, we get to have our cuddle bug time, and just getting to be Mommy's baby. Now we squeeze that time in between reading books, talking, and doing homework. And of course I can't forget that she loves fixing her own snacks, drinks, or doing most things for herself. She has become so independent the last year!
As for me, I'm trying to enjoy every minute of watching Katie grow. I truly do love my job and my coworkers. I love that we're like a big family. I will be very sad when the time comes for me to move on with my career and leave my family at McDonalds. And, I'm still single with no serious prospects, and I like it that way. I get to focus on me and Katie. ;-)
Last year at this time, I was a full-time student, part-time employee, and trying tonfit motherhood in the mix. I was in my phlebotomy clinicals, finishing up coursework for my associates degrees, studying for my phlebotomy board certification, working, and being a single mom. I know there are thousands upon thousands of single parents out there who do this. It just seemed extra hard for me. Oh yeah, I forgot to throw in a custody battle with my ex husband. And some other nonsense court business. Oh the craziness and the stress!
This year, the custody battle is ongoing, though it does not require as many days off work and out of class as it originally did. The other cases have been settled, and life is not so crazy. Busy? Absolutely. I like to stay busy. Just not crazy busy.
I'm working almost full-time, I've graduated community college, but I'm still on the job hunt, and I have so much more Mommy & Katie time! That is absolutely the best part of life slowing down this year, and the point of me taking time off from school before going on to an university. I work more often, and longer hours, but I'm not spending so much time "zoned out" studying or halfway being a mom.
Katie definitely enjoys having her mommy's attention more, and she takes advantage of it as often as she can-which is about every 5 or fewer minutes.
It's crazy to realize that my baby girl will be turning 6 in less than 2 weeks. She is growing in leaps and bounds. I find it so hard to comprehend that my 8lb, 2oz, 20½ in baby has grown to barely fit in my arms and weighs over 60lbs these days. She still loves it when I rock her like a baby, we get to have our cuddle bug time, and just getting to be Mommy's baby. Now we squeeze that time in between reading books, talking, and doing homework. And of course I can't forget that she loves fixing her own snacks, drinks, or doing most things for herself. She has become so independent the last year!
As for me, I'm trying to enjoy every minute of watching Katie grow. I truly do love my job and my coworkers. I love that we're like a big family. I will be very sad when the time comes for me to move on with my career and leave my family at McDonalds. And, I'm still single with no serious prospects, and I like it that way. I get to focus on me and Katie. ;-)
Friday, December 13, 2013
OH! What A Year It Has Been!
Ok, I said I was going to blog at least once a week..... That was in February. This is December. So, roughly 10 months later I'm gonna try to get back at it. We shall see what happens.
To summarize what has happened since February, well....
In March, my niece, Evie turned 3. What a BIG girl she is becoming!
In April, Katie turned 5.
In May, I graduated from Frontier with 2 Associate Degrees and my Certificate in Phlebotomy. Yay me!
Then came August, when Katie started Kindergarten, and lost her first 2 teeth (bottom, front)- within weeks of each other. She can also tie her shoes, read and spell, pour her own drinks, fix her own snack in some cases, and many other simple tasks that mean she is growing up and is no longer my 8lb, 2oz, little girl. My youngest niece, Emmaleigh, also turned 1.
In September, I sat for my ASCP (American Society for Clinical Pathologists) Phlebotomy exam. After TONS of studying and flash card making, I PASSED! I am OFFICIALLY Avery Williams, PBT. What a relief that is to have under my belt! I have applied a few places for jobs, but I am still working at McDonald's.
October brought a couple surprises, I won tickets off the radio and took my sister to see "The Price Is Right-LIVE" in Evansville, for her birthday.
November was a whirlwind with my oldest niece, Kassidy turning 4. My brother got to come home for a visit in the middle of the month. We were hoping to see Evie as well. She got sick right before he left to come and he and his wife, Jen, decided it was best for her to stay home with Mom. Jeffrey made an earlier than planned departure. Overall, though, we had a nice visit. Then there's Thanksgiving with Black Friday Shopping (where I spent too much money). Katie spent this Thanksgiving with her Dad, but she gets to wake up with me on Christmas Day! That's the joys of being a divorcee' with a child, I guess.
December, Oh what fun you have been! HA! HA! HA! I am so ready to be done with Christmas shopping and wrapping and preparing and anything and everything in between. I don't understand when nor how something so fun when I was a child became so stressful! AAAAHHHH!!!! RUN HERE, GO THERE, DON'T BE LATE, BE READY, DON'T FORGET A PRESENT FOR YOUR UNCLE MAX'S DOG'S SISTER'S AUNT'S COUSIN!!!!! And the empty bank account that goes along with it all... SO MUCH FUN!
BUT the joy on Katie's face when she opens her surprises make it so worth it!
So, that's my year since February. I'm REALLY going to try to update more often, I PROMISE! We'll see how it goes!
To summarize what has happened since February, well....
In March, my niece, Evie turned 3. What a BIG girl she is becoming!
In April, Katie turned 5.
In May, I graduated from Frontier with 2 Associate Degrees and my Certificate in Phlebotomy. Yay me!
Then came August, when Katie started Kindergarten, and lost her first 2 teeth (bottom, front)- within weeks of each other. She can also tie her shoes, read and spell, pour her own drinks, fix her own snack in some cases, and many other simple tasks that mean she is growing up and is no longer my 8lb, 2oz, little girl. My youngest niece, Emmaleigh, also turned 1.
In September, I sat for my ASCP (American Society for Clinical Pathologists) Phlebotomy exam. After TONS of studying and flash card making, I PASSED! I am OFFICIALLY Avery Williams, PBT. What a relief that is to have under my belt! I have applied a few places for jobs, but I am still working at McDonald's.
October brought a couple surprises, I won tickets off the radio and took my sister to see "The Price Is Right-LIVE" in Evansville, for her birthday.
November was a whirlwind with my oldest niece, Kassidy turning 4. My brother got to come home for a visit in the middle of the month. We were hoping to see Evie as well. She got sick right before he left to come and he and his wife, Jen, decided it was best for her to stay home with Mom. Jeffrey made an earlier than planned departure. Overall, though, we had a nice visit. Then there's Thanksgiving with Black Friday Shopping (where I spent too much money). Katie spent this Thanksgiving with her Dad, but she gets to wake up with me on Christmas Day! That's the joys of being a divorcee' with a child, I guess.
December, Oh what fun you have been! HA! HA! HA! I am so ready to be done with Christmas shopping and wrapping and preparing and anything and everything in between. I don't understand when nor how something so fun when I was a child became so stressful! AAAAHHHH!!!! RUN HERE, GO THERE, DON'T BE LATE, BE READY, DON'T FORGET A PRESENT FOR YOUR UNCLE MAX'S DOG'S SISTER'S AUNT'S COUSIN!!!!! And the empty bank account that goes along with it all... SO MUCH FUN!
BUT the joy on Katie's face when she opens her surprises make it so worth it!
So, that's my year since February. I'm REALLY going to try to update more often, I PROMISE! We'll see how it goes!
Thursday, February 21, 2013
In The Beginning....
Hey!
So this is my first posting. I'm pretty excited about it.
I highly doubt anyone reads this, but I thought I'd do a blog anyway. My brother has his own, which I'm sure I will mention from time to time. He is always telling me how hard it is to keep up with his, so I thought I'd take one on as well.
My hope is to deaign this to be somewhat of a "Mom" diary. I will include the day-to-day trials & triumphs I face being a Single Mom, as well as many other feelings & emotions I go through on a daily basis, as a woman. I am hoping it will be somewhat therapeautic for me. We've had a rough last 12 months.
I know there will be times that I may blog one or more times a day, but my hope is to post at least once a week.
So this is my first posting. I'm pretty excited about it.
I highly doubt anyone reads this, but I thought I'd do a blog anyway. My brother has his own, which I'm sure I will mention from time to time. He is always telling me how hard it is to keep up with his, so I thought I'd take one on as well.
My hope is to deaign this to be somewhat of a "Mom" diary. I will include the day-to-day trials & triumphs I face being a Single Mom, as well as many other feelings & emotions I go through on a daily basis, as a woman. I am hoping it will be somewhat therapeautic for me. We've had a rough last 12 months.
I know there will be times that I may blog one or more times a day, but my hope is to post at least once a week.
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